Si Gila Hijau

As a human, kita memang selalu ada rasa nak judge orang and sometimes kita tak perasan kita ter'judge' orang. Be in others' shoes before we judge, baru la kita tahu pahit perit pedih (dan yang sewaktu dengannya) yang orang tu tengah rasa. But then, kita yang terlalu sensitif ni menggelabah then cakap "They're judging me." without knowing that kita sendiri yang menunjukkan bad behavior etc. Both side ada salah, so apa-apa pun kita start dengan diri sendiri dulu.

- Stop judging people based on our own understanding about their problem (plain observation)!
- Stop whining on why people judge you.

It's very heart wrecking when people start judging everything that we did in the past or present time. We start to tweet about our feeling, update status on how bad people's judging us bla3. Haish. Tapi diri sendiri pun judge orang jugak, achaner? :(

And somehow, without kita sedar, kita abandon orang or group yang we claim "They judge people." even though just some part of the group yang buat macam tu. Have we ever be in their shoes? Maybe mereka pernah hidup dalam dunia yang mereka menjadi mangsa penilaian manusia? Yes, mungkin kita akan cakap, "Bila diorang rasa lebih hebat dari orang lain, mula lah apa yang orang lain buat tak kena.". Why not kita menegur, bagi nasihat, instead of leaving them and stop joining them?

I experienced it once, I did judge @#$ after 1st time jumpa. Then rasa macam dah taknak join @#$ in anything @#$ do. But you know what, @#$ is not like what I think. Totally. Why this happened?

- Negative thinking
- Too much depending on others' opinion (?)
- Judge without knowing he/she/them in person
- Etcetera etcetera

You know, when you start saying yang dia/mereka judge orang, I'm starting to judge you too, bukan diorang je. See, it's dangerous. Macam kanser, kanser pun kalah. I'm a normal human being, yang mudah terpengaruh dan dipengaruhi. I don't like people to judge me, so I HAVE to stop judging people. DO help me :( DO help yourself. DO help your friends. We live in one big world, bukan hanya dalam dunia ciptaan kita.